Our consciousness—the part that thinks, makes decisions, and interacts with the outside world—is only the surface of a complex, multi-layered existence. Beneath this lies a vast, silent, yet extremely powerful layer: the subconscious mind. This is the mind that automatically controls approximately 90 to 95% of our thoughts, feelings, and reactions, and it is this mind that possesses a remarkable and surprising characteristic:"The subconscious mind does not know 'others.' It only knows 'you.'"
To the subconscious mind, you are the entire universe.
To the subconscious mind, 'you' and 'other people' are not two separate entities. This division is merely a concept of our conscious awareness. In the subconscious' view, every thought, every word, and every feeling ultimately manifests within you.
When you say
"He's so bad"
"He always does wrong"
"People are untrustworthy"
"The world is bad"
Even though your conscious mind is speaking these words to someone else, your subconscious mind interprets them as directly about you.
Why?
Because the subconscious mind is incapable of understanding the identity of "others."
To it, every experience, every thought, and every word is your inner reality.
And it accepts them as true and begins to dictate your energy, emotions, and future actions.
Why Criticism Hurts Your Own Soul
When we criticize, fault, or insult someone, we think this negative energy is being directed toward the other person.
But the subconscious mind prevents this energy from being released.
The law of the subconscious is simple:"Whatever you are saying, thinking, or feeling is happening within you."
So when you call someone "incompetent," "bad," or "deceitful," your subconscious mind begins to mold your belief system accordingly.
Gradually, you begin to apply the same labels to yourself that you use for others.
The result?
Lower self-confidence
Increased anger
Strained relationships
Endless striving to prove oneself
Inner guilt
Emotional exhaustion
This is why people who speak negatively are often the most troubled, oppressed, and broken in spirit, even if they appear strong on the outside.
The need to understand the power of our words
We take our words lightly, but the subconscious mind treats every word as a command.
Words become energy, energy becomes emotions, emotions become habits, and habits become our reality.
If we speak negatively about the world, the subconscious mind begins to shape our world accordingly.
Unknowingly, we attract difficulties, problems, and negative situations for ourselves.
How Your Words Shape Your Destiny
Suppose you say,"People are not trustworthy." You will be deceived more.
"I always fail." Failures will increase.
"I have bad luck." The subconscious mind will stop showing you opportunities where luck would have been in your favor.
In effect, your words become the path to your future.
The subconscious mind starts leading you down that path.
So what is the solution?
1. Filter your words
Speak thoughtfully, because every word germinates within.
2. Show kindness and respect to others
Positive words said for others also bear fruit within you.
3. Pause before criticizing
Is this necessary?
Will it help me or anyone else improve?
4. Gentle your self-talk
The subconscious mind accepts your voice as truth.
Give it love, and it will give you the life you want.
5. Take responsibility for your emotions
What you feel is what you create in your life.
"The subconscious mind is your mirror."
Life begins to change when you understand this profound truth: that your subconscious mind knows only you.
Therefore, everything you say to the world ultimately comes back to you.
When this is understood deeply,one stops attacking others and begins to focus on making their inner world beautiful.
And their outer world begins to shape itself as they are within.
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