The Ripple Effect of Conversation



One friend asked another: What gift did your husband give you to celebrate the birth of your child?

The friend replied, "Nothing!"

She questioned, "Is this a good thing? Is he worthless to you?"

After dropping this poisonous bomb of words, the friend walked away, leaving the other friend to her own thoughts.

A little later, in the evening, her husband came home and found his wife looking sad. Then they had a fight.

They cursed each other. They fought, and eventually the husband and wife divorced.

Do you know where the problem started? With that stupid sentence said by a friend who had come to inquire about her well-being.

Bikash asked his close friend, Pawan: "Where do you work?"

Manoj: "At such and such a shop."

Bikash: "How much does your boss pay you?"

Manoj: "18,000." 

Bikash ji - 18,000 rupees is all you manage with. How do you manage your life with that much money?

Manoj ji - (taking a deep breath) - What can I say, friend?

The meeting ended. After a few days, Manoj ji became disinterested in his work and demanded a raise.

The boss rejected it. Pawan quit his job and became unemployed. He used to have work, but now he doesn't.

A gentleman said to a man who lived separately from his son, "Your son rarely visits you. Does he no longer love you?"

The father said, "Your son is very busy, his work schedule is very tight. He has a wife and children, and he has very little time for you."

The first man said, "Wow!!"

What a wonderful thing! You raised him, fulfilled his every wish, and now, in his old age, he doesn't have time to meet you because of his busy schedule.  So this is an excuse for not meeting.

After this conversation, the father's doubts about his son grew in his heart. Whenever the son came to visit, he would always think that he had time for everyone except him.

Remember, words spoken from the mouth have a profound impact on others. Indeed, some people speak malicious words.

Many questions in our daily lives seem innocent to us.

Like :

Why didn't you buy this?

Why don't you have this?

How can you live with this person for the rest of your life?

How can you believe him?

And so on.

We ask such meaningless, useless questions out of ignorance or without any purpose.

While we forget that these questions are sowing the seeds of hatred or love in the listener's heart.

If we delve into the root of the tension that's building up around us today, whether in society or in our homes, it's often someone else who's behind it.

They don't realize that words spoken unknowingly or deliberately can ruin someone's life.

Let's not be the ones spreading such rumors.

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