"Women love a confused man. They're always looking for a confused man—someone who's a little crazy, a little eccentric. Because madness has an attraction; a man who is frantic, confused has a certain magnetism. He's full of possibilities, full of dreams. Women love dreamers.
And men? Men love a sensible, stable woman—otherwise they'd go mad—to keep them grounded. Woman symbolizes the earth. Man needs woman because he lacks roots in his own being. He needs woman—that warm earth, that deep soil—where he can spread his roots and stay connected to the earth. He's afraid—he has wings, but no roots. And he fears that if he doesn't hold on to the earth, he might fly away, disappear into the infinite sky, and there's no return. This fear is what drives men to chase women.
And woman doesn't have wings. She has roots. There are deep roots; woman is pure earth. And she fears that if she is left alone, she will never be able to soar into the unknown. Man cannot live without woman, because then he loses his roots. He becomes simply a wanderer.
Then he has no place to belong. Just look at a man without a woman in his life: he belongs nowhere, he has no home, he becomes a piece of floating wood—the waves carry him wherever they will—until he finds a woman somewhere; then home is born. Researchers say that 'home' is a woman's creation. If a man lived alone, there would be neither home nor civilization.
Without a woman, a man is a lost traveler, a wanderer. So sooner or later he needs to establish roots. Woman becomes his earth. Until a man finds something within himself that can become his earth, until he discovers his own inner woman, he will have to search for an external woman.
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