Do it without a condom today, because it is not fun after putting it on.
I used to say this to my husband every day and he used to agree with me.
But no one knows when 2 seconds of pleasure will turn into a punishment.
I got married at the age of 25. In the beginning, everything was very exciting and new. Anshu and I would often get so excited that we would have unprotected sex. I used to think—“Oh, I am just enjoying love, nothing wrong.”
Then Anshu gave me contraceptive pills. In the beginning, I kept taking them just so that he would not get upset with me. But I did not know the seriousness of it. Sometimes I would take too much, sometimes I would forget. No one thought how much it can affect my uterus and hormones.
After a few months, I realized that my menstrual cycle had completely changed. Swelling in the stomach, pain, and sometimes a feeling that something is not right. When I met the doctor, she said, “Prolonged misuse of hormonal contraceptives can lead to uterine inflammation and ovarian dysfunction. This can make it difficult to conceive.”
Truly, I could not understand. One moment I was excited, the next moment I was depressed. Anshu was also upset. Sometimes both of us would sit quietly and think, “Our mistake has caused us this pain.”
Now I know, sex is not just fun, it also has responsibility. If I had been a little careful, had taken the right dose, maybe we could have become parents.
But now I can only learn. I have learned that along with love and romance, information, caution and medical guidelines are most important.
Lesson: Sometimes a small negligence can cause regret for the whole life.
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