Understanding Female Pleasure: The Anatomy of Orgasm Beyond the Vagina

"A woman's orgasm has nothing to do with the vagina; the vagina is merely a reproductive mechanism. A woman's orgasm doesn't depend on a man's penetration through the vagina—that's fine for reproduction. A woman has a separate organ—a very small one—the clitoris, which doesn't interfere with a man's orgasm. Unless a man understands a woman's physiology—and generally no man understands—it doesn't work.

A man is the only inexperienced lover in the world, because before marriage, neither a man nor a woman has any experience. It's a very strange world—two people are going to be together for a lifetime and they don't even know what to do. A woman's clitoris is the organ that gives her pleasure, and it's not part of her vagina. A man ejaculates in a maximum of two or three minutes. And he has to hurry, because if you're committing a sin, hurry up—don't delay too long, or remember, hellfire!

Unless a man understands a woman's physical structure,  Unless he understands creation—which he has never bothered to do—he will not understand that a woman's entire body is sexually sensitive. A man's entire body is not sexually sensitive; his sexuality is very localized—limited only to his sexual organs. A woman's entire body is sensual. And unless a man arouses her by playing with her entire body, arousing her—that is, foreplay—a woman does not awaken. But no man wants to do this, because it takes time and has to be done quickly—lest God arrive! Hence, foreplay is discontinued!

Christians, in particular, popularized the "missionary position," in which the beauty is below and the beast is above. The poor woman has to lie almost dead—only then is she considered a "lady." Only prostitutes experience pleasure. A respectable woman should not moan, sigh, murmur in pleasure, or scream. Therefore, she has been taught to remain completely lifeless during a man's intercourse. This one-sided love  It is—the other side is completely dead; the other side hasn't been awakened at all.

Those who understand sexology say that the woman should be on top to give her more mobility, and the man on the bottom to remain calm—because he ejaculates in two minutes! If he remains calm, he can handle twenty or thirty minutes. It takes at least ten minutes for the woman to become aroused. This inequality exists, and it can only be resolved when the man understands that the woman is not just a machine to be used. She is a soul, just as alive, and has the same right to pleasure as you.

That's why foreplay is essential, and the man should be on top, the woman on top. The man should lie like a "lady," and the woman should be truly naughty! Only then is it possible for both to reach orgasm together. When both start trembling, going out of control—only then do they know what sex is. It's not just a part of reproduction; it's also a part of immense pleasure. And that pleasure—in my  According to me, it gives the first glimpse of meditation, because in those moments the mind stops, time stops. For a few moments there is neither time nor mind—only profound silence and bliss.

I say this—this is my scientific view on the subject—because man had no other way to know that one could enter into a state of bliss even in the absence of mind and time. There was no other possibility except sex through which the mind could understand that there is a way beyond mind and time. Indeed, sex gave the first glimpse of meditation. And I have become the object of condemnation all over the world because I am telling people the truth.”

Osho

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